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I have met many people in my life who are very negative. They moan about seemingly everything and walk around with the weight of the world on their shoulders. I was also like that until the age of twenty-two, at this age I decided to have a new approach to life.

For those first twenty-two years, I was forever feeling sorry for myself. My friends all appeared to have so much more than me, and my life was one long hard struggle, compared to theirs. I was caught up in a web of negativity and needed someone or something to help me to escape.

During an afternoon at work one day, aged as I say twenty-two, a colleague I was working with started to talk to me. What he said was a shock to me, however would have a profound effect on my future. He said to me:

"Your are somebody who always thinks in a negative way, you a right depressive person, aren't you?"

"Am I?"

I said in a shocked voice as I believed I was no different to anybody else. He continued:

"Yes you are. You very rarely smile, you are negative about most issues and you always seem to be carrying the world on your shoulders".

This man was aged around fifty three and continued:

"I used to be like you and then I was given some advice, of which I am now going to relay to you. When you feel down, depressed or sorry for yourself, read the newspapers or watch the news on the television. You may then realise that you are in fact one of the lucky ones."

I had a long think about what he had said. I had never been a big reader or watcher of the news, but decided to give it a go. The advice he gave me was totally correct, the news from around the world and even my own country was quite shocking. I realised that the worries I had were actually quite trivial and that I needed to cherish everyday and start to look on the bright side of life.

Stephen Hill

Here is an interesting way to discover your true purpose in life. It is about the real reason why you exist and the meaning for you to be here. It will take around 20 minutes.

What you do is take a paper or open your text editor, write the following title on top: What is my true purpose in life? Start to write down anything that comes into your mind. Don’t stop. Just continue to write. You may write more than 100, 200 or more answers. But just don’t stop. Certain same answers may repeat from time to time and during the process you may start to feel annoyed because the answer can’t seems to converge. Just bear with it and continue to write. You will come to a point that your answer start to converge. You will start to notice the final answers arise because that few answers will keep on repeating more and more frequently. You will finally know those are the true answers as it makes true sense to you. It may take around 20 minutes or more. That’s fine.

It takes me around 20 minutes with 70+ answers to come to the following final answer:

Live to my Fullest Potential
Continue to Grow and Improve Everyday
Live and Work Together With Others Well
Live with Belief and Faith

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We have all heard the expression, "if at first you don't succeed, try, try again." But to carry on without thinking about why you failed only leads to more failure.

The ability to create is a God given gift. A gift given to everyone without exception. Thought is the first step to manifesting any creation. Thoughts are energy, they are real. Your thoughts act as magnets and attract other thoughts, people, and circumstances that harmonize with them.

Thoughts operate and adhere to certain universal laws. Without  these laws there would be no order; the universe itself would sink into chaos.

The Law of Attraction states that like attracts like. Much of what was once considered metaphysical, esoteric knowledge in the past is now scientific fact. Physics has shown that the principles involved in the Law of Attraction are every  bit as valid as those governing the Law of Gravity. So it should come as no surprise that dwelling only on your problems simply attracts more problems.

The idea of attracting success by thinking about it is very appealing. So appealing in fact, people often get the wrong impression that it's easy. Affirmations can be helpful, but mindless affirmations alone have no real value. On the other hand, once an affirmation becomes part of your belief system the subconscious goes to work attracting opportunities. It is not the success itself we attract, but the opportunity to succeed.

Our world is ruled by cause and effect, yet we often fail to see how this rule applies to the thoughts we think. This happens because the results of our thoughts are so far removed from the cause that we fail to see the connection.

The subconscious mind is working tirelessly 24 hours a day. It doesn't analyze, it doesn't judge, it simply accepts and attracts more of what the conscious mind is focused on. Are you attracting problems or solutions? By focusing on desire and showing gratitude for what you already have, the subconscious mind is given the necessary material to provide a constant stream of opportunities. Whether we take advantage of these opportunities or not is another story.

It's impossible to operate outside the law of attraction. Consciously or unconsciously your thoughts, feelings, and emotions, determine if this law works for or against you. Stay focused on your success and reaching your goals. As one success leads to another, success becomes a habit. Problems and obstacles are seen as no more than stepping stones on the road to your ultimate goal.

The "true love" in my opinion can not be separated by words such as fidelity or loyalty. "Love" that society instead touts a defense makes all the deceit, lies and disloyalty. The phrases that seek to justify the mediocrity of infidelity are something "we are all human," "we all make mistakes." It is not, of course, be judges, no one should be, each person must assume their responsibilities, but you can not promote the idea that instincts are stronger than the feelings because it is a brutality.



Surely these liberal ideas are promoted by people who like to be labeled as "open-minded" people who have the ability to reach a dense public from their positions in the media with their messages that they impose on others that viewer to think like them. Many people succumb to these subliminal messages of the media because people always want to be allies with modernity and then it is preferred to accept these concepts as they are not willing to be seen as outdated, many people have a tremendous fear of doing or saying something make them see how conservative or Cucufate. Because it is supposed to live in a society of openness, generosity, and even though there may be solid reasons to keep certain rules or principles, many prefer to be on the liberal side of the stream current as fast as obscure.

When it's time to say goodbye to the person you love is always a time of sadness and regret. However, over time, which is gratifying to know that you have been smart enough to finish the best possible way with that person with whom we shared beautiful moments, unlike of course, many couples end up quarreling and hating.
When you have an independent mind and lucid, you have the option to bring out the best in you and you are able to understand and accept that sometimes life's circumstances precipitated the end of something that might be a beautiful story yet.
When the factual, says that something is over, the person who has a clear mind must always ensure that everything runs on good terms and that things are in a unique friendship with the sincere hope that that person is loved will go as smoothly as possible, thanking you for the unforgettable moments. If you are noble, and intelligent you think so, otherwise if you are selfish and spiteful will be very difficult to assimilate this idea.

-Philosophy is useful because it allows the development of rationality by continuing questions we ask ourselves in the diverse circumstances of our lives.
-Philosophy is useful for acquiring knowledge, the person who thinks and philosophy, is always seeking to explore and learn, and that's always beneficial, because it warns us about what can happen.