EL ENFOQUE CORRECTO

El autoengaño implica convencerse a sí mismo de que estamos bien aun cuando convivimos permanentemente con nuestro lado oscuro. Es no reconocer lo malo que hay en lo más interior de nuestro ser.
A partir de ello no hay forma de ser feliz, puesto que no se puede engañar a esa voz interior que nos pide que aceptemos la realidad de lo que verdaderamente sentimos y se encuentra anclado en subconsciente. A partir de reconocer nuestras taras internas, puede recien empezar empezar la renovación espiritual y mental.

Aquí les dejo un fragmento de un artículo que escribí en mi blog MENTE FILOSÓFICA.


"Un hombre o una mujer se engañan cuando dicen que lo más importante es su familia y sin embargo se entregan a la infidelidad arriesgando el amor de su cónyuge y el cariño de sus hijos.

Se engaña quien se propone metas altas y no está dispuesto a pagar el precio en audacia y perseverancia. Se engaña quien se siente muy buena persona porque hace una caridad y busca que todo el mundo le vea. Se engaña quien se siente un señor sabio creyendo que sólo por el hecho de tener canas y una larga existencia puede dar lecciones de vida cuando por dentro no ha eliminado la mayoría de sus inmundicias.

Se engañan los que creen que por ser artistas o personajes famosos realmente son más que seres humanos, el tiempo y la realidad les da una cachetada, y la verdad de la vulnerabilidad de ese “yo físico “ del que ostentan se ve reflejado en el espejo de la vejez y las enfermedades que la ciencia no puede derrotar.

Engañarse, es pensar que se puede vivir sin ideales, sin principios. Dentro de cada ser humano hay un fuego que arde incesantemente en busca de la justicia, la verdad y el amor. Para ir en busca de ellos se debe tener principios, sin ellos no tenemos conciencia, y entonces no somos nada, porque realmente si no tenemos conciencia somos animales irracionales.

Encubrir nuestro lado oscuro es lo peor que podemos hacer, es no reconocer que nos equivocamos; que hay demonios dentro de cada uno que están arraigados y que se expresan en envidia, hipocresía, vanidad, segregación, cobardía y otros venenos mentales derivados de la estupidez de la especie humana.

Nuestro lado oscuro debe ser localizado para ser erradicado, sino se reconoce que tenemos el mal ¿cómo podemos ser mejores?¿cómo se puede producir el cambio? Esa oscuridad está en nosotros en pequeña y gran escala"

Liberate yourself - Go out and do what you like! - How long it has been since you last went to have a walk among the pines – something that you loved as a child? How long has it been when you walked hand in hand with your friend to the bakery and tossed a coin to decide what to buy? These might seem very simple things but these simple things have the power to add on to build great confidence and fulfilment. Life if see is actually quite simple. What gets a bit too complex though is to remain simple. Isn’t it? Just as small drops of water make the mighty ocean, the little things you enjoy doing have the capability to turn you into a storehouse of confidence. When God made you, He put a desire in your heart and bestowed onto you the capability to achieve it. However, in the process of growing up, you forgot what exactly your purpose was, what is that you liked and what is that you enjoyed doing. It does happen with lots and lots of people who do feel like breaking free but are too tied up in their day to day responsibilities that it gets impossible for them to spare even 10 minutes to reflect on their lives, their direction, their dreams and goals. It’s our duty to clear the mess that prevents us from hearing to our heart. The conversations with your heart should keep getting clearer and the best way to do it is to find time to do what you enjoy. And since you enjoy doing that activity, it straightaway means that you have all the aptitude and intelligence necessary to do the job effortlessly even though you may not realize it.

Find your flock - Birds of a feather flock together. You must find out people with whom you enjoy being. They are certainly the people of your frequency and the energy flow between you and them is natural. Life becomes easy when you are among the people who are more or less on the same plane of thought as you and it’s easier to relate to them. They seem to understand you and vice versa thus creating conditions for healthy conversations. A good conversation is a very healthy exercise and an important need of our mind. We all want our ideas to be heard and appreciated and a good company provides platform for the same.

Set Achievable Goals and Go for it! - The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. The idea is to begin with a small single step that can then further developed into giant strides. Learn to do the work at hand rather than to overwhelm oneself by looking at the entirety of a mammoth looking task. Just like the soil underneath your foot, the top of mountain too would someday be under your step. The only way to do something is to GO FOR IT! No matter how small the progress is the focus should be on completing a task successfully even though it’s a small task. A series of big uncompleted task is a sure shot way to depression. Break a big task into a list of small tasks to be completed. Tick off from your list each job successfully completed. A completed task no matter how small it is gives a sense of achievement that boosts our confidence and equips us with more energy to try a bigger task.